Jan's Blog

  My Cousin Mareta My cousin Mareta died of COVID on September 12th, 2021, a year and a half into the pandemic. She vowed that there was no such thing as COVID; she’d prove there was no such thing as COVID. She was on a vent 28 days, improved a bit toward the end, then died.  She was the perfect Livingston Countian: She never had a job, lived her life in a two mile radius of her childhood home, living completely for her family and community, being a volunteer, church worker and caregiver. She married the boy she began dating in her sophormore year in high school, and, by all accounts, it was a very happy marriage. I have no doubt that, if she had lived, they would have grown old together and died together. I don’t think that they ever dated anyone else.  She was born a hospital, in Salem, Kentucky, but thereafter, unless she went to Paducah for her groceries or to Florida on vacation, and for her final trip in life to the ICU, she spent her life in Hampton, Kentucky. Her ...

  Losing A Parent   If you don’t do something stupid when you are young and remove yourself from the gene pool, you will outlive your parents. Here in the Oedipal South, nobody seems to ever recover from the loss of a parent.      My parents were good people. They were born at the beginning of the Great Depression, and grew up without a many possessions. They were were grateful for everything they had.     They started out life together as a young farmer and a young teacher, twenty-somethings who had an old house, a tractor Mother bought for Dad with one of her first teaching paychecks, a crazy female blue tick named Lady*, a few head of cattle, and a few chickens. Dad brought the cattle into the marriage with him, and Mamaw gave Mother the chickens.     Mother was going to school in the summer, riding to her classes at Murray State University with some other teachers who were attempting to get their master’s in education. Mother was a sophom...